“If someone could only see my actions and not hear my words, what would they say about my priorities?” James Clear, Author of Atomic Habits

As a Mom, I have had conversations with the Toad about situations where a person’s words and actions are incongruent. We have talked about looking for the potential reasons for that disconnect and depending on the person and the relationship to have a conversation about his observations.

I must admit I have not explicitly connected actions to priorities for the Toad. I must also admit that as I read the quote above and thought of my own current choices, that my actions, while congruent with some of my priorities, they may need some significant rebalancing.

What are your actions saying to the world?