If your younger leader-self could see the leader you are today what would they be the most surprised by?

Of course, this is an age-old question with the twist of focussing more specifically on your leadership over time. For me, the answer came quickly (not sure what that means) - it is the level of tolerance I now have for situations to unfold or things to change.

My younger self was much fierier and more impatient. In fact, my Grandma used to tell me I could not even spell the work patient. I used to dive headfirst into causes, conflicts, and projects. For the longest time, other than reading I did not engage in hobbies like knitting or woodworking etc. because to me they all represented something that had to be finished right this minute. They certainly were not relaxing.

So, I think my older leader has mellowed. She recognizes that sometimes situations must unfold to its natural pivot place to allow things to grow and change organically rather than through other influences. Maybe as an older leader I am more discerning in where my fiery self focuses.

What would your younger leader say about your leader-self today?